Advice on Dating a Korean Women

The best advice if you wish to be with a Korean girl is to play it by ear and not expect to jump their bones. Not all Korean girls are as wild as some people say. It is up to them if they wish to continue being with you. Also you should aim to be smart or rich if you want to date a Korean girl.

Korean Women Characteristics:

Korean women are shy. Korean Women do not like to show their affection in public. You will hardly ever seen couples holding hands, kissing, and hugging in public spaces.

Korean women are submissive. In general, Korean women tend to be submissive due to their traditional culture whereby men are look upon as the dominating partner. They are brought up in a way that women should act in a delicate manner. When they smile, for instance, they tend to close their mouth with their hands.

Korean women are proud of their heritage. Korean women and men hold their national pride, because there are many aspects of the culture they are proud of. Example education, hard-work, Korean food, beautiful geography, topography and comraderie. If you really want to get into the good shoes of a Korean girl, just say this three magic words:”I LOVE Kimchi”

Korean women prefer white males. In fact Korean women are racially biased when it comes to dating. When selecting foreign boyfriends, there’s a tendency to be prejudiced in terms of race or nationality.

Dating a Korean Women:

Be nice to her family and to her best friend, too, but not that nice because then she’ll assume you’re hitting on her friends and that would NOT bode well for you. They like gifts too.

Every Korean girl likes luxury brands like LV, Gucci or Chanel. Remember dates, like the 100th day after you met, the 100th day after you first kissed her, the 100th day. And buy her a little something accordingly. So you must be rich or at least keep up appearances that you are. Your first gift can’t be something too cheap or else she’ll think you’ll never be able to provide for her “stay at home and look hot” lifestyle. but at the same time, you can NEVER downgrade. it’s all up from there.

Carry her designer purse for her when she asks you to. As embarrassing as it is, it is less embarrassing than when she starts to whine and starts sobbing, “but so and so’s boyfriend carries her bag for her, don’t you love me baby? why won’t you carry my bag for me, my arm hurts so on so on.

Prepare to get fat. Korean girls love to feed their men. Fatten them up for the kill, so to speak? They’ll make you so fat that no woman would want to see you naked.

Pretend not to notice when she’s stuffing her face. Most Korean girls will pretend that she doesn’t eat that much but once you get closer you will know that a Korean girl’s stomach has no limitations. She was lying when she said she wasn’t hungry the first time you took her out to dinner. As soon as you dropped her off at home, she busted out the biggest pot in the kitchen and made herself some bomb ass bibimbap with the four bowls of leftover rice. And ate it all. In one sitting. And probably downed it with a beer.

Korean girls like to feel special. Don’t check out other girls when you’re spending time with her. She has eyes like a hawk and will notice if you so much a glance at another girl. She’ll make a big deal and start a fight with you in the middle of the street. If you do get busted, your first words better be, “Why are all girls so damn ugly next to you, baby? Let’s go to shopping.”

When you go drinking remember that she drinks way more than she’s letting on. Korean girls hardly get drunk but they would like to appear it so you can take care of her. But then again Korean girls like to drink soju, so it can’t actually be that much. She’s probably faking the whole drunk act just so you can give her a piggy back ride.

If you really like to date Korean girls, you have to be 100% respectful and approach them with some knowledge about Korea’s culture and language. Korean girls love it when guys do that.

Successful Tips for First Lesbian Dating

Like other dating scene, finding lesbian personals online is quite easy with the help of several available dating sites focusing on women seeking women. This alone makes finding a good partner a lot easier. Still, you need to carefully select your partner to make sure the relationship is enjoyable for both parties. The most important stage of all should be the first day, when you actually meet the potential partner in person. There are several things you need to make sure when you are meeting someone you met online for the first time.

Relaxation – Prior to your date, do not drink to relax. Instead, do some relaxation exercises such as deep breathing. You want to be sharp and alert, not sloppy and obnoxious.

Dressing – Wear clothes that you feel good in. Be sure to wear comfortable shoes. You do not want to be miserable or fidgety about what you are wearing. Complaining how uncomfortable you are is not a good conversational topic.

Venue & Activity – Your first date should be at a venue that is conducive for talking to each other. Do not go to one of your “regular hangouts” where you will see a bunch of your buddies. If you go to a movie, be sure to include dinner or drinks so you can visit, too. Remember the idea is to get to know each other. Do not orchestrate the evening so that it is filled with distractions and intrusive friends.

Conversation Topics – It’s always a good idea to have several topics that you can easily talk about. Current events, trivia, popular music and movies, etc. Keep the conversation fun and not too heavy. Do not monopolize the conversation. Ask her questions, too!

Body Language – Smile when you greet your date. This shows her that you’re happy to see her; and, you’ll look friendly and fun. Sit-up straight and lean forward to show you are interested. Refrain from slouching and yawning. Plus, un-cross your arms; crossing them can make you seem bored or unapproachable.

Focus – Eye contact is most important. Look at her when she is talking. Put the cell phone away. Do not be checking for messages or changing your status on Facebook! And, do not be gawking at other women or looking over her shoulder! Pay attention to your date!

Genuine – Be honest and sincere. Do not try to be overly impressive. Being too arrogant will probably earn you a spot on the Reject List. She’ll be more impressed by your modesty.

Good Listener – Really listen to what she is saying. Do not be waiting for her to stop talking so you can throw in your two cents. Do not hijack the conversation. Show interest.

Etiquette – Manners are always a must. Be courteous, punctual and polite. Here’s a quick refresher on table manners: Keep your elbows off the table, napkin in your lap, do not talk with your mouth full and do not speed eat! She is watching you!

Follow-Up – You had fun, you flirted, you enjoyed each other’s company and you’d absolutely like to see each other again. Don’t keep that a secret. Offer a hug or a kiss. Let her know that you had a great time and you’d like to do it again. Do not play the waiting game, i.e. waiting three days until you call her. It is okay to text her that night. Before you go to bed tell her that you had a great time and you will call her in a day or two.

Last but not least, only go further if you are totally comfortable with the person. There’s no need to rush and decide everything during the first meet. Take your time, have a second and third meets if you need to, then decide if the person you are meeting with can really be your life-partner.

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